Dave Grohl is facing backlash after shocking revelations surfaced about his marriage. Social media users are also criticizing his behavior from his recent public outing caught in video, with one even suggesting his wife of 20 years should leave him.
Dave Grohl has ignited online controversy following a recent public appearance with his longtime wife, Jordyn Blum. As public figures, their relationship has drawn significant attention.
Jordyn Blum and Dave Grohl at Lady Gaga’s residency after-party on December 28, 2018, in Las Vegas, Nevada. | Source: Getty Images
The Hollywood couple first crossed paths while out partying. In an interview, Grohl recalled meeting Blum, one night in 2001 at the Sunset Marquis whiskey bar. He described himself as casually dressed in Vans, dirty shorts, and a T-shirt, feeling out of place among the glamorous Hollywood crowd.
Jordyn Blum and Dave Grohl during Spike TV Presents 2003 GQ Men of the Year Awards after party on October 21, 2003 in New York City. | Source: Getty Images
When he first saw Blum, then an MTV producer, he thought there was no chance of anything happening. After a few drinks and acting a bit foolish, he jokingly told her, “You’re my future ex-wife.” She playfully responded by writing her number as “Jordyn, your future ex-wife.”
Jordyn Grohl and Dave Grohl attend the 2003 Billboard Music Awards on December 10, 2003, in Las Vegas, Nevada. | Source: Getty Images
Although they went out a few times, Grohl admitted he initially pulled back, realizing he wasn’t ready for a serious relationship at the time. In another interview, the famed musician, best known as the frontman for the rock band Foo Fighters, revealed that he had stopped calling the director at that time.
Dave Grohl performs with the Foo Fighters at Fenway Park on July 21, 2024 | Source: Getty Images
“After three months, I had a revelation and called her back. She picked up the phone and said, ‘Oh, I never thought I’d hear from you again,'” recalled the drummer.
Dave Grohl and Jordyn Blum during 2004 Clive Davis Pre-Grammy party on February 7, 2004, in Beverly Hills, California. | Source: Getty Images
Dave Grohl and Jordyn Blum rekindled their relationship and officially married at their Los Angeles home on August 2, 2003. With music legends like Clive Davis and Krist Novoselic, Grohl’s former Nirvana bandmate, in attendance, they began what has now become a 21-year marriage.
Dave Grohl and Jordyn Grohl at the 33rd Annual Kennedy Center Honors on December 5, 2010, in Washington, DC. | Source: Getty Images
Since then, Grohl and Blum have welcomed three daughters: Violet in 2006, Harper in 2009, and Ophelia in 2014. In an interview, Dave Grohl reflected on the importance of stability in his life, especially during his years of touring.
He shared how he always sought balance, often retreating to Virginia when things became overwhelming. Speaking about his wife and their oldest child, Grohl said, “[..] Jordyn and Violet are anchors that keep me from completely disappearing.”
Violet Grohl, Jordyn Blum, Dave Grohl, Ophelia Grohl and Harper Grohl at the 65th Annual Grammy Awards on February 5, 2023, in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images
Grohl even dedicated the song “Statues” to himself and his wife, Blum. A line from the lyrics says, “Time will turn us into statues eventually.” He explained the meaning behind it, saying, “To me there’s nothing more beautiful than seeing the headstones of a husband and wife side by side in a graveyard.”
Jordyn Grohl and Dave Grohl attend the Elle Green Room at the 25th Film Independent Spirit Awards on March 5, 2010, in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images
The musician is a proud family man as he even showed off his first born. In June 2023, Grohl had a special moment onstage with his daughter, Violet, during the Glastonbury Festival. Introducing her at the Pyramid Stage, he proudly called Violet his “favorite singer in the world” before they performed “Show Me How,” a song dedicated to Grohl’s late mother and Violet’s grandmother.
Dave Grohl and Violet Grohl on The Pyramid Stage at Day 3 of Glastonbury Festival 2023 on June 23, 2023, in Glastonbury, England. | Source: Getty Images
As a family-focused individual, Grohl recently sparked controversy with a statement on his Instagram account that raised eyebrows. The announcement sent shockwaves online as it has a significant impact on his marriage to Blum.
“I’ve recently become the father of a new baby daughter, born outside of my marriage. I plan to be a loving and supportive parent to her,” Dave, who was previously married to photographer Jennifer Youngblood, disclosed.
Now a father of four, Dave Grohl expressed his deep love for his wife and children, stating that he’s doing everything he can to regain their trust and hopes to eventually earn their forgiveness. Amid the headlines, Grohl made a public appearance with Blum at the Wimbledon tournament. A resurfaced video shows what seems to be the most recent public appearance of the pair.
As the couple walked together, a BBC Sport reporter approached Grohl during the Wimbledon Championships in July 2024, held in London, and asked for his predictions on the tennis match. While many spectators were eager to enjoy the high-profile matches, the music star appeared irritated and dismissive, offering brief and curt responses as he walked past.
Dave Grohl during Wimbledon Championships, dated July 2, 2024 | Source: TikTok/bbcsport
When asked who he thought would win, Grohl looked puzzled and responded, “What?” even after the question was rephrased. Chuckling, he maintained his confusion. The reporter pressed on, asking about the Men’s Singles, to which Grohl replied, “No clue.” As for the Women’s Singles, his response was similarly vague as he stated, “Couldn’t say.”
Dave Grohl during Wimbledon Championships, dated July 2, 2024 | Source: TikTok/bbcsport
Grohl’s behavior at Wimbledon didn’t sit well with some online users, who criticized him in light of his recent announcement about welcoming a child with another woman. The news stirred backlash, with many voicing their disapproval of his actions. Commenters on TikTok noted that the typically outgoing Grohl seemed to be in an unusually bad mood at the time.
Dave Grohl during Wimbledon Championships, dated July 2, 2024 | Source: TikTok/bbcsport
“His ‘Mr Nice’ guy days are over,” commented one user. Another observed, “Dave has been acting slightly pissy recently.” Someone remarked, “Everyone thinks Dave is this great guy, but he’s really not, lol.” Another simply penned, “Embarrassing.”
Jordyn Blum and Dave Grohl during the Wimbledon Tennis Championships on July 2, 2024, in London, England. | Source: Getty Images
“The more I’m seeing of him lately, the less I’m liking him,” one user admitted. Another stated, “Bro, I don’t even recognize him like that.” One person suggested, “Hopefully she leaves him,” adding, “He’s taken her best years and had three kids with her and gone and decided to suddenly make another child with someone random. His daughters will know the sort of man he is…”
Dave Grohl during the Wimbledon Tennis Championships on July 2, 2024, in London, England. | Source: Getty Images
In the midst of personal and public challenges, Dave Grohl continues to navigate life under the spotlight. As he faces criticism and attempts to mend relationships, his commitment to his family remains a central theme. Only time will tell how these revelations will impact his future, both personally and professionally.